What is Synchronicity?
"The simultaneous occurrence of events that appear significantly related but have no discernible causal connection."
You walk into a book store not knowing what to buy, and the book you need falls from a shelf and practically hits you over the head.
You finally end a bad relationship and immediately another partner comes into your life as if by synchronicity.
You drive to a place where parking is "next to impossible" and someone pulls out of a parking spot or it is waiting for you.
You meet someone who interests you and touches your soul. Through synchronicity that person seems to come into your life over and over again. You begin to feel a destiny with that person. You begin to think with your heart instead of your head. You connect with that person. In some cases the karma between the two people is positive but in many cases you have attracted that person into your life for a learning lesson whether you are aware of it or not.
You feel depressed and can't find focus in your life. The next person you talk you says something that brings needed guidance. In a world of wounded souls, and evolving consciousness, answers to help and guide will come more quickly and from different sources than in your past. Learn from those who come along, but never become co-dependent.
~from the website http://www.crystalinks.com/synchronicity.html
I, like thousands of American women, watch The Bachelor reality show. I don't know why I do it, but I do. It's one of those "guilty pleasures" that we so often indulge in. Thirty women, most in their early to mid-twenties, vie for the love of The Bachelor. The Bachelor is sometimes chosen because they are apart of the ABC Network "bachelor family" or because they have qualities that seem to make America want to watch them find love. Not to mention, most of them are handsome, if not in appearance alone.
I thought of diving into an explanation of the show and the history that it has (it's been around since 2002) but instead, I just want to give my opinion on this last season of the Bachelor.
I didn't like Peter Weber! I don't know if it is because I am older now, old enough to be his mother, but I just did not feel that the guy was "marriage" material. Sure, he is a pilot, cool. But the 28-year old still lives with Mommy & Daddy, doesn't seem to think with anything other than his "manhood" and didn't display one ounce of maturity throughout the season. I'm sure he is a nice guy and all, but, in my opinion, he did not make for a very good Bachelor. And don't get me started on the continuous interruptions in the season from his annoying Mom - definitely a "mama's boy".
On another note, I hear The Bachelor franchise is thinking of making a season with an "older" Bachelor (65+). That would be great - as long as they have equally aged contestants. However, most men that age want younger women (at least to become their second wives). For marriage number 3, they will settle for someone their age - right? (tongue-in-cheek)